SuperNormal Realities

  Your Shot as a Woman   I saw this message in the picture, a nice one, but let's clarify something: Shooting your shot does not mean ask the man out. Please don't do that. It's a man's pride to ask a woman out and it's a woman's pride to respond to a man's confession with a yes or no. These women Esther and Ruth in subject  only went into the men's space, DM so to say, but they never shot their shots. They only positioned themselves, the men took notice of them and the men shot the shots. The first woman did the same, she was brought into Adam's space and Adam saw her, he named her and claimed her. You like him? Well, get into his space, get interested in his things and he will see you. It matters what you do in his DM for you to be exceptional to him. You can't spend his time cracking jokes and expect  him to take you for a serious one, nah. There's a time he will need to see what substance you can bring to his table. Perhaps, you don't...

  Don't Miss the Need The relationship is no more but you still do not know what you did wrong. Are you sure you didn't need someone you didn't need? Or are you sure you didn't make someone need you when they didn't need you? Missing the need, sometimes that's perhaps the only wrong thing we did. The destination of every relationship is known before it starts. When a relationship graduates prematurely, normalise to sit down, reflect and analyse what went right and what went left. Don't go into another relationship without this insight instilling analysis. The most difficult stage of a relationship is not the starting stage, it is the stage before the starting stage. How things are before you actually get into it can tell where you are headed. It's really surprising when you are in a relationship and the key figures in your life know nothing about it. I asked someone why is the relationship not known yet and the answer was, "I want to be sure first, ...