Your Shot as a Woman

 

Your Shot as a Woman

 

I saw this message in the picture, a nice one, but let's clarify something:

Shooting your shot does not mean ask the man out. Please don't do that. It's a man's pride to ask a woman out and it's a woman's pride to respond to a man's confession with a yes or no.

These women Esther and Ruth in subject  only went into the men's space, DM so to say, but they never shot their shots. They only positioned themselves, the men took notice of them and the men shot the shots. The first woman did the same, she was brought into Adam's space and Adam saw her, he named her and claimed her.
You like him? Well, get into his space, get interested in his things and he will see you. It matters what you do in his DM for you to be exceptional to him. You can't spend his time cracking jokes and expect  him to take you for a serious one, nah. There's a time he will need to see what substance you can bring to his table.

Perhaps, you don't know what women Esther and Ruth were and what it took them to present themselves before the men. Go read. For today, I will only share with you three  things: two for you ladies and one for us men.

 

    1. Favour

Ruth and Esther, both found favour in the eyes of the men. Hhmm👀what is it about you that will find you favour in the eyes of the man you like? I hope the man you like is a man worth talking about: a man of favour which can be extended to you. Let me repeat: the kind of men that Ruth n Esther were after were not ordinary men ladies. If the guy you like is  in this caliber, then this is for you.
✍️You got to realise what that man is carrying and as such, you will need to find favour in his eyes for him to notice you. What do you have that can attract his favour? Go read what Ruth and Esther had.

 

    2. Presentation

One truth about us men, we like what we see. Ruth n Esther were such likeable sights. Your physical look matters. Let's see how these two women presented themselves before the men:

✍️Ruth washed up, put on perfume, and got dressed in her best clothes (Ruth 3:3).
✍️Esther had a lovely figure and was beautiful. On top of her natural beauty, she completed beauty treatments for 12 months (Esther 2:7 & 12).

Yees how you look matters to us men. Esther and Ruth one thing for sure they were good for the eyes.  Ladies, you know you have the capacity to look your best like a woman, but why look like a man? Why dress like a man? Why do your hair like a man? Why behave like a man?
You have the capacity to get a good figure, get one. You have the capacity to improve on God's beauty in whatever concerns you, go on get one. Men we like what we see. Esther and Ruth made a move yes but they didn't get it twisted. Sharing that post with you is just to tell you not to get too excited. The order remains, let him ask you out. You can help him do that easily though, that's what Ruth and Esther did, just positioning themselves for the shot. Look your best, you ain't an exception. If Ruth and Esther did it, so can you in your own version😊

 

Now let's continue like this before the third point:

Men, you would want an Esther in your DM yeah? Then, realise this: the favour on your head is what is gonna crave her into your space. Esther n Ruth were ain't after ordinary men; it's your extraordinarity that's gonna catch her attention. So, carry yourself as a man of favour. Present yourself as someone that she can gladly will to present herself before you.
✍️She's a Queen, she needs a King, are you one? Are you a King enough to proclaim her a Queen and the world gets to respect that? Can you redeem her and maintain her name?
Yeyee you like what you see buddy, so, you want her with a good figure, a beauty with no filter; aha yes that's okay, she's there. But she's gotta see something that she can come to your feet for, do you have that? Of all the men, why should she find comfort in your space?...Point 3:

    3. Give her space If she ain't in your space

✍️If she likes you and interested willingly to do this, she will come into your space willingly too we have seen. There is this one thing we should know:
90% of the ladies you like are aware that you like them before you tell them that you like them. And out of this 90%, some of them are aware that you like them before you yourself is aware that you like them. What's the point: bro you haven't told her but she knows that you like her😅 Now, knowing that she knows that you like her, how does this help you?

If she knows that you like her and she likes you too, she's supposed to come into your space. If she doesn't like you, she will not come into your space, she will not be interested in your business, she will not come before your feet.
She will not give her time to you, she will not present herself before you, she will not dress her best, for who? For you?😂aah broda you dey lie. She will do that for someone she likes, not you.

She's avoiding you, she's busy to you, she's uncomfortable with you...bro do you think she's doing this because she likes you? You like her and she knows thaaaat, but she doesn't feel the same way for you. How can she come into your space then? She knows bro, give her space. She doesn't want to come into your space, a man got to respect that🙃Space her💪 She will like that, she will appreciate you🫂

Esther and Ruth coming into the DM of the men is a good idea and both their gender and us should learn something from it.

If he likes you, well as said it's easy for you ladies to know that naturally: he will be glad to have you in his space. If she likes you, you will see her in your space.

If not so, well God is good, He loves you anyway. So, love yourself too, let go and step forward. You will come across another right candidate.