How Do You Know She's Worthy?

 

How Do You Know She's Worthy?

Hie y’all, hope you are amazing. I am sufficient as well this side. So yeah, we had a question on the table. I did get some answers from some lady, thank you for that one, I loved it.

Proverbs 31:10 📖A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth far more than rubies...This is the question we got yesterday: how do you know she is worthy? Far more than rubies, worth paying the price for.  I will answer it this way:

I don’t have an answer for you, the answer is with you. For I don’t know what worthiness looks like for you, and so I can’t really say this is this, no. What is considered worthy differs across men. You will know she’s worthy when she’s the definition of what worthiness is to you.

However, there is still something I may share with you. As Proverbs 31:10 prescribes, it’s a woman of noble character that the Bible challenges us to find. Yeah ladies, it’s what we see: your beauty, your figure, your smile, your voice, your cute eyes, your dressing, etc; it’s what we see that attracts us to you first. But what makes us keep you is neither of these, it’s your character. I quote Pastor Faith, she said Proverbs 31:10 is not challenging a man to find a noble woman. The question is literally as who can find her. It’s  a question that goes both to a man and woman. So woman, you gotta find the noble woman within you if you are to be worthy being found by a man.

So bro, on top of your definition, there are some noble attributes attached to a worthy woman that she will prior possess before you finding her, look for these. Am not sure if today can be enough for this, but we will see how to go about it. According to Proverbs 31, some of the notable characters at your pursuit are:

 

1. Confidence / Trust

Can you trust her? What capacity does she have that gives you confidence in her? Do you have confidence in her enough to introduce her to your world? Indeee sankhani bwino, pick someone who you will be confident to walk in the streets with, someone you can go in public with, nanji mawa valentine: pick someone you can showcase without nthumanzi mwa iwe. Pick someone who is pothera panu, ukamuyang’ana wekha uziti yeees ineyo nnafika. Some of you, you are understanding what am saying. She’s worthy if she can get your confidence, if she can get you value.

2. She brings good

She’s the good that God made to fix the not good of you man. If she's not a carrier and a disperser of good, bro run. There’s no point of keeping her, for then she’s not the fix that God made.

3. She’s not idle

There’s no way that God has not blessed her with something that she better serves her purpose with. Panakambidwa nkhani ya ndalama, she can also produce money. Money shouldn’t be a man’s job alone. Help make money too woman. It’s the bible saying so. So, what are you getting your man tomorrow🙂 I mean surprise him, tell him babe don’t worry about getting me anything, you’ve always given me enough, today let me give to you. Kuteroko winawe wayamba kale making an issue out of this. Chonchoo😂 Listen woman, 📖16 She considers a field and buys it; out of her earnings she plants a vineyard....she buys out of her earnings. Am telling you real things here, you take it or leave it. Mkazi azidziwanso kuphika, malemba akutero🥱ndangodutsapo.

4. Her hands are open to the poor and needy

My mom and dad would tell me, don’t get yourself someone who will make you forget us. If she cannot remember family, can she remember those outside? You will know she’s worthy, if her heart can give out.

5. Strength and honour is her cloth

Yes, check how she dresses. Is honour, is dignity in how she presents herself? A man feels good when people talk good of his woman. He feels good when he earns respect through his woman (verse 23). Ayi ndi chibwenzi chabe, so what? Does that rob you of the ability to obtain a good report in the eyes of people? Actually ngati chili chibwenzi chabe, chibwenzi chimenecho nchoyenera kutha ndithu, thetsani.

6. She speaks wisdom

Muziuzana nzeru ndi mkazi, kumakhalako pansi nkusakanizana mitu. Mkazi azikuuza kuti invest your money than always get her gifts and ma out. Eeetu tuti wise ladies ndamene atha kupanga izi. Udzilankhula nzeru, choncho mwamuna wa nzeru angalephere kukumvera? No way.

7. She fears God

📖30 beauty is vain, but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised. This is your secret ladies: you can do all the 6 points and more but if you don’t fear the Lord, forget it. Your worthy is in your ability to submit to God. 

Don’t get someone poti she goes to church, the devil can also stand in the presence of God. Demons also believe and tremble. Get the one who FEARS God, this is one of the seven Spirits of God and its fruit will be shown on her. She is a woman of identity, of standard, of clarity. You shall know her by her fruits, by her own works she is praised. A prudent wife is from the Lord; woman, the only way you can find the noble woman in you is having God give her to you. Realise that you are the one who finds the wife first before man finds her. I hope someone has been helped.