SuperNormal Realities

    Should we really involve parents in our relationships?   Day 14: 26 January 2022 : Well, with what we have discussed so far, by now you should be convinced that yes we really do need to involve them in our relationships. Yes they do matter. We gotta place them in the space where they need to be placed when it comes to our relationships. We said it does not constitute that you are mature just because you can decide things on your own. Rather it is who you make your decision with that tells whether there is maturity in you or not. Now with all these things we have shared concerning parents and their role in our lives, we cannot hereby say it’s old fashioned.  👂Listen, I get it that you’re told to act like a grown person and decide things for yourself, aha, but hear me: making decisions on your own is not biblical, that’s a false teaching of the world. Let me take you to this understanding: have you read the scripture that says do not lean on your own understandin...

  The Honour in Old Keys Day 10: 20 January 2022 Hie, I believe your day was nice to you. Very nice for me this side, very nice and fruitful. Today we will begin another interesting part of the honoured old key; mother, an also important being in the world. A mother I would say she’s the deputy father, she’s a woman in a motherly role. She helps the father and she does this in her own unique way. 1. Life-giver Aha you wouldn’t have been here if not for your mother. You see, it’s possible for a seed with possible life to die in the ground yeah. It’s a whole different idea to give a seed life and watch that life grow. That’s a mother - she’s a whole different idea. It’s a whole different idea to give a seed life and watch that life grow. That’s a mother - she’s a whole different idea. It’s a matter of a little time for man to impregnate, and it’s a matter of little time for a woman to conceive, but it’s not easy to bring forth what has been conceived.  It is a mother who holds a...

  The Honour in Old Keys Last year we started a bit of this and I said this has to be for some other day, well this is the season and we will take our time, no rush. I know some parents you are reading this, am grateful let’s stick together. I remember saying it's really surprising when you are in a relationship and the key figures in your life know nothing about it. I also remember saying if your parents can't know of your relationship, you don't need one. If you can't tell your Pastor or your father in the Lord, you don't need one. If your friends know but not your parents or guardian nor your religious leaders, you don't need it buddy. ✍️This should be for some other day, but realise there are some wisdom only hidden in your parents and not your pastor, some in your pastor and not your parents. When you dishonour this wisdom, it may not end well with you. You see, sometimes when I sit down and look back to the days I was young and further back to the days of ...

  The Man's Standard This year let’s begin by talking a bit of a man’s standard. One of the things we got to continuously pay attention to is our standards. Either you gotta maintain or raise your standard. By literal definition, a standard is a state of excellence or quality. Excellence never is without what guides its being. Thus, a standard is further defined as a set of rules, pattern or principles agreed upon. It is this set of rules that produce excellence or quality when followed through. Now, rules or say principles help man to be singled out. Standard guards man. From the very beginning, God gave man a standard to function by. In man God fused excellence, quality of being and at the same time God guided man in a standard; principles by which man would sustain the excellence in him. 🪔There is a way man is supposed to function, such that he malfunctions when he functions out of this supposed way. It’s for this reason that you cannot do things anyhow as a person, you need ...

  Your Shot as a Woman   I saw this message in the picture, a nice one, but let's clarify something: Shooting your shot does not mean ask the man out. Please don't do that. It's a man's pride to ask a woman out and it's a woman's pride to respond to a man's confession with a yes or no. These women Esther and Ruth in subject  only went into the men's space, DM so to say, but they never shot their shots. They only positioned themselves, the men took notice of them and the men shot the shots. The first woman did the same, she was brought into Adam's space and Adam saw her, he named her and claimed her. You like him? Well, get into his space, get interested in his things and he will see you. It matters what you do in his DM for you to be exceptional to him. You can't spend his time cracking jokes and expect  him to take you for a serious one, nah. There's a time he will need to see what substance you can bring to his table. Perhaps, you don't...

  Don't Miss the Need The relationship is no more but you still do not know what you did wrong. Are you sure you didn't need someone you didn't need? Or are you sure you didn't make someone need you when they didn't need you? Missing the need, sometimes that's perhaps the only wrong thing we did. The destination of every relationship is known before it starts. When a relationship graduates prematurely, normalise to sit down, reflect and analyse what went right and what went left. Don't go into another relationship without this insight instilling analysis. The most difficult stage of a relationship is not the starting stage, it is the stage before the starting stage. How things are before you actually get into it can tell where you are headed. It's really surprising when you are in a relationship and the key figures in your life know nothing about it. I asked someone why is the relationship not known yet and the answer was, "I want to be sure first, ...

  Talk the Matter Hello there, I hope you are doing great. For me, yeah am pretty. Well, I feel like I have something we can share today. I feel this may help a lot of us, of course those of us who are in pursuit trying to update our status, those of us whose status is already updated or even those who marriage has sealed our status. I happened to have had a little chat with this good cool  handsome bro and he asked me something that replayed itself in my mind today. Summarised, he asked me: “For some days now I haven’t had a normal conversation with my lady, she’s always like in moods and am messing up when I try to work things out. I did something she said it’s okay if I do, and now she’s telling me she’s not comfortable with me doing that very same thing she said it’s okay for her. I said cool I will stop but why didn’t you just tell me earlier and she’s like she’s been giving me signs etc....we tried to talk further about it but eeeh ngati ndulakwitsanso, zutopetsa..i...