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Relational Tips Hie🙃I hope you're good, right. Am pretty beautiful too this side. So, yes we meet again. At this point in time, let's just share each other some general points to consider as far as relationships are concerned. 1. Be Single Important, single yourself out. Relationships are easy to do when you are single, when you are one and yourself. Don't undertake this project out of pressure, enjoy your season. This is the time to discover God and discover who you are, to build yourself, to characterise yourself into character, to learn, to unlearn. You're big now but umayamwabe either your chala or pen; probably you were denied that activity when you were young. See, a skipped stage is your next stage🚏, you will stop at it! When you don't serve your singlehood, be sure that you will want to be single whilst already in the bus. You will begin to pursue yourself, finding meaning to your life, dealing with issues that you tamed all along. It catches up with you....

Solid advices - Women 1. Be clarity responsive Suitable helpers, hello😊 Let’s start by imagining that you go to your man's or crush's place. He says hi to you and then goes doing like you are not there, like you are some ghost there; not attending to you, not striking a conversation with you. How would you feel? Wouldn't you send yourself off? How do you think we feel then when you are playing hard to get, wanting a man to chase you? Do you feel we enjoy the game?👀Solid advice: Be clarity responsive . No man enjoys chasing you, not this kinda man that you're looking could find you. Let's break this down: there are two kinds of men seeking you: wolves and shepherds, and you are the sheep. i. Wolves This kind is carnivorous. When it sees you, it has seen food. This animal just has to hunt to quench its hunger. To say, whatever it takes to catch you, it will do strategically: whether it's walk to you, run after you or chase you. Yes, this one enjoys chasing you. ...

Solid Dating Advice - Men  Everyone is born as a child in Christianity, but you must grow. Great things of God may be, but when they are received by a child, they are handled childishly. Grow! As time passes by, grow into a man too! 📖1 Corinthians 13:11 ✍️Bishop Alfred Goliath Solid dating advice too: 1. Don't date a child; get yourself a man, get yourself a woman.   You need someone you can speak the language of the Spirit with. Because loving someone with God at heart is crazy. It demands you to make crazy moves. You need someone mature to make those crazy moves with you whilst drawing sense out of those crazy moves. These are not maneuvers for children. Child abuse ayi🙂 Age is not maturity, it's deeper than age. 2. Seek to find a wife 📖He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the Lord (Proverbs 18:22). Winawe nde wagundika asking God to help you get a girlfriend🌝 girlfriend akutengerani kuti? Ali nchani iyeyi worthy pursuing?🌝 Solid advice: S...

  Protect Him, Protect Her 1 Corinthians 11:3-15, I find it interesting and mysterious, like there is a big story behind it. Am still trying to get it. But on literal meaning I came across: you know how the bible says the man/husband is the head of the woman/wife. And then it says, the woman ought to cover her own head, the man I believe. Simply, woman, cover your man (your head). It is disgraceful to uncover your man. Covering is for protection, you ought to protect your man. Remember this one time I said God making you out of a rib designates you to the function of protection just as the rib does to the body. Your protection is in two forms in this case: 1. Internal The rib is under, inside the skin protecting the inside delicates. You ought to protect the vital elements inside your man. Inside him is purpose, integrity, character, strength, peace, joy, vision and all that. You ought to help him keep those safe. 2.Presentation (external) The outside can tell of what's inside some...

  Don't be Parasitic  Love others because you want to give them what you have. Don't love them for what you want to get from them. The proof of love is giving, what do you have that you can offer to your neighbour? ✍️Bishop Alfred Goliath Don't be a parasite yeah💆‍♂️Give...and this reminds me, you know how parasitic you can be when you get in a relationship whilst your love tank is leaking? By default, you will always want to receive because you got none in your tank, you’re always leaking. You literally got none, not even an overflow that you then can offer to your partner. You got hurt? Heal first. Surround yourself with people who will help you heal and mend your tank. It hurts to love someone who cannot keep bits of what you pour into them. Stop leaking! And hear this, it's when you have love that you can love. You gotta be filled with love first before you love. Otherwise, out of what are you pulling your love? Don't go in a relationship thinking you will love...

  Blessed with Burden I was reflecting through my life a couple years ago, and I learnt these 4 things: 1. A burden produces a blessing A burden produces a blessing. The reason on your head stands a certain kind of blessing is because there's a burden you need to address with that blessing. With a burden, you provoke a blessing to respond. Thus, in the absence of a burden, the blessing becomes a burden likely. Trust me, without the correspondent burden,  the blessing can dismantle you. Let the blessing find a burden in your heart. It will stay longer in the presence of a burden. May it be your prayer that God imprints in you a burden worthy the blessing. You are first blessed with a burden before you are blessed with the blessing. 2. A burden produces gratitude A burden produces an attitude of gratitude prior to the blessing. Everything you are not grateful for, graduates from your life. You sustain the blessing with gratitude. Thus, without the burden, you can hardly realise ...

  Why Do We See Beauty First? A couple of days ago, we were talking with my brother and he asked a question that got me excited and all that: why do we see beauty first when approaching a woman? Yoh, it sparked some curiosity in me further to the answer I gave.  The simple reason first of all is because we take after our Father. You’re normal and okay if what you see first is beauty. It is a natural character that we possess in likeness of God. You see, in several places we see God exercising this character in first chapter of Genesis. We find the words “God saw it was good, and God saw it was good, and God saw everything He had made, and, behold, it was very good.’’ God took the first initiative to see, and good enough what He saw was not just good but very good at the end of the day. The woman we are talking about remember she is something that God took His time on: she is very good in making. That’s why when you see her, what you see first is the crafting hands of God on he...

  Stop believing in yourself Something I learnt doing early but understood later: “Don’t believe in yourself.” How can you make it in life if you don’t believe in yourself? Exactly, today the world advocates the self attitude. We are told to at least have the ability to tell ourselves that we can do it! The funny thing is: how many times have you told yourself you can do it and you never did it? How many times have you told yourself you got this and you never got it? It might sound strange to you, but it’s an error to believe in yourself. Nowhere in the Bible to my studying so far, have I been told to believe in myself, to trust myself. But I have been told repeatedly to believe God, to believe in God, to trust God, to trust in God...for those who trust in themselves are fools (Proverbs 28:26). Lean not on your own understanding but trust God with ALL your heart. Plainly, Jesus was like you know what, abide in me and I in you; for without me you can DO NOTHING . It is then further...

  How to Balance yourself An important question I got: How did you balance God, school, leadership, relationship, and all that you are? I will always  say this: you balance matters by never balancing them. Don’t balance them, and you will have them balanced. Let’s expound it this way: balance is a state of equilibrium, it’s a state where the matters at hand acquire equality. By equality, it means your matters rest on the same level. Now to begin with, God and your matters cannot be placed on the same level, it’s an error. Your school, relationship or whatever is not as important as God is. Hear me, your school, relationship and the concerned idea is important as God is when God is in your school,  in your relationship and your said matter.  Balance is a matter of equality and I wouldn’t advise you on it in this scenario. Rather, the balance in question is a matter of priority. Thus, let us call this balance ” Stability “. Have priorities and your matters will gain ...

  I've never written to you, but dear crush I wonder why you bear that noun, is it coz you're meant to crash? Your description betrays you, n I don't wanna call you such It's like you're a crush coz you crash; so can I spare you the scratch For when you crash, I might not have your security patch Look, I like you that much  And we're already in the last days of March So, let me address you properly in the context of the match Than crush, I say Dear mahope At least that sounds like Hebrews 11:1 in plural Now faith is the substance of things hoped for I don't crush for you, I hope for you, I believe for you  You ignite my faith to substantiate you Hmm isn't it interesting that even my faith sees you? You're a serious matter; Romans 5:5 talks of you that you don’t put to shame And I hope you're the hope of this fame I hope my substance and evidence of you is not lame Yesterday you were what I hoped for Today they've labelled it a choose day, and...